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  THE RELATIONSHIP ANALYST - JESSICA TAYLOR

 

WHY DID I PLAY MYSELF CHEAP? (BEING THE OTHER WOMAN)
-By Jessica Taylor
 
 
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Cheap - adv. low in price, at minimum expense.
Hello, my name is Jessica L. Taylor, and I have been "the other woman." The sad thing is, I've been the other woman on more than one occasion. I started this article by announcing my name and telling what the problem once was. Because just like when you go to the emergency room in the hospital, you will be directed to the Admitting Room. Once inside the Admitting Room, you will be prompted to tell your name and give a description of the problem. That is the ONLY way that they can and WILL help you.

Now, some of you that are reading this article are currently in this situation, you are "THE other woman." And you are perfectly fine with it too. Well, at least you think you are. I once held this title so near & dear to my heart. No one could tell me anything. I walked with a big stick. I held my head high. "MY MAN" wined me and dined me. He gave me whatever I wanted, when I wanted it. OH MY GOD! And the sex was the BOMB!! But, he also controlled my every move. I was his puppet. I was his slave. I did WHATEVER I was told when I was told.

I sometimes ask myself, "What were you thinking? Why did I Play Myself So dam cheap? And I always came back to this answer, I DIDN'T KNOW MY WORTH! My self-esteem was shattered. Yes, I loved the the extra attention. Yes, I loved the money. Yes, I loved the gifts. And yes, I loved the sex! But, I had created a mirage. It was all fake. The relationship had no substance.

I made myself believe that I wasn't good enough to be first. I was addicted to superficial things- clothes, money, and cars. But those things couldn't hold me at night. I wanted him to hold me. I wanted him to love ME & ONLY ME!

Walking away from him wasn't easy, not comfortable. Walking away from being the other woman WAS NOT easy, BUT IT BECAME NECESSARY! I started really spending time with Jessica, learning what Jessica liked. I worked on my self-image; My self-worth. I attended women conferences. I read self help books. I was determined.

Being the Other Woman comes at a high cost. Ask yourself-Am I willing to pay the price?
 
 
 
 
   
   
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